Life as it is!!!

Life as it comes!!!!
Well, we all enter different stages of life and i am here in this blog to explain the meaning of life, the beauty of life from my perspective. I started my life as an obedient kid to my parents (though to some extent...i am still obedient...:-)). I have an excellent brother who is very caring and affectionate and is concerned about my career and my well-being. Then, as I grew up, I realized that there are some priorities for our own self. Though I got a seat in BITS, Pilani, I did not go there...just because i cannot leave my parents and go. But my brother made me and my parents realise the need for my individuality and how the hostel life can give that sense of responsibility. So, finally, i decided to goto an hostel but however not very far off...so , joined a college in coimbatore. Well, for the first 3 months, I was cursing my brother like anything...why the hell did I come here? Is this life, without parents and brother near-by, worth itself? All sorts of stupid questions and gr8 ideas came to my mind. Then, the days went by in my college...my parents and brother consoling me everyday....its then that I saw the true life !!!

wow! what a fun college life was....guys teasing girls and girls inturn showing their reaction at the exact time( u know when....yes the exam times....:-))...then the hostel life...the most heavenly period of one's life...the most cherishable moments of one's life. Ya...I got really good friends whose shoulder I could lay on forever in my life....Thanks to my brother and parents, for without them, I would have never ever realised the importance of friendship. Ofcourse, I learnt quite a lot from my college life...c'mon yaar...forget academics...here i am talking about different kinds of people....I saw many faces of people with different characters and altogether a different focus and attitude towards life....I really could say one thing strongly now....to become real good soul-to-soul friends, ur frequencies need not match with ur friends'....yes of course, if the frequencies matches, then friendship would be easy and smooth...but i say....with altogether different frequencies, the friendship bond thickens...Thats my gut feel now...!! It is not just true for friends, its also true for ur life partners....

Well....continuing my blog after a looooonggggg time...!!!

College life is something where u will be both childish and at the sametime responsible and matured...
Having spent such a good time in college, with friends...I moved onto my professional front...
Though, it is officially called a professional career, I dont call it so....
b'coz after my college days, the first 3 yrs of my professional career were the best...the best days of friendship....!!!
Thanks to TCS for making it so memorable...very cherishable and nostalgic memories....
We had our TCS training in Trivandrum, wherein I got some good friends....whom I can confide on for my life...

Then, my parents found someone for me...and I fell in love...
Life showed me how gr8 it is to have a feel of love, apart from the friendship...
The comradeship is something different and the feel of love is something different...

"Great it is indeed, to have a lovable parents....greater it is indeed, to get good friends but, greatest it is to have a life partner like the one I have got..!!"

I am lucky to have been blessed with excellent friends and an excellent life partner....undoubtedly excellent parents...!!!

Love is divine...Once a person falls in love, all his thoughts, his deeds, his beliefs everything surrounds around his lover...
I am not trying to be cinematic here...! I am just trying to say that u wud feel that...for u, everything is him....
This does not mean ur own individuality is curbed if u fall in love...
the point here is...just as u wud feel the world is him...he wud also feel that the world is U...!!
So, it will be a gr8 mutual feel for both of u...and everything u do would be after a proper understanding of both the feelings....
I dont mean to say that there will be no conflicting ideas at all....there definitely will be difference of opinions, difference in thoughts...
but the conclusion that u arrive at, wiil be acceptable and liked by both of u...Thats love..!!!

The diffference in love and liking is that the feeling of love, starts from the eye...whereas the feeling of liking starts from the ear...
When ur friend comes and talks to u, u get happy....but when ur lover comes and talks to u, in addition to happiness, ur heart beats faster....

As this phase of my life was going on, the wedding bells rang...and I got this person into my life forever near me....
We had an excellent married life when I went into my family way...!
Yes, we were waiting for the arrival of a new little baby into our life....
Those days of expectations were great...! My husband literally used to carry me on his shoulders...