Baby after Marriage..!!!

When to go for a baby after marriage???

Marriage is one of the most important phase in one's life...Life after marriage would definitely be different for both the boy and the girl...There are many perceptions of the above question asked... It depends on whether the couple is family-oriented, or career-oriented or both...So, let us take each cases separately and analyse...
When the couple is family-oriented, then it is not a problem at all...somehow, u can manage the finance and the girl can sit at home itself (without going for work) and take care of the baby...So, such couples can go for the baby at any time...However,in this case, managing the finance wud be a big problem with the inflation rate going high everyday...
When the couple is interested in growing in their career than being a family-person, then also it is not a problem at all...After the baby becomes say some 6 months old they can put the baby in a day-care or have a baby-sitter in their house to take care of the baby...so, such couples can also go for the baby at any time...
However, this question is apt to be asked when the couple is both family and career-oriented...In such cases, going for a baby should be a planned move...Since the couple is family-oriented, they would always want somebody at home, who is just not a baby-sitter but shd also a reliable person...Since the couple is also career-oriented, both the mother and the father of the baby would definitely want to go for work after the baby becomes some 10 to 12 months old...so, they generally prefer someone like the grand-parents to be with the baby at all times...in such scenarios, the couple should go for the baby when their parents are healthy and fit enough to run behind the baby...And this help can come from both the boy;s and the girl's side parents...when both side parents are involved, there ought to be some situations arising, which would in turn result in a conflict between the father and the mother of the baby...So, the couple in this scenario should be ready to cope up with such conflicts...Ideally, for such kind of couples, I feel it is better to go for a baby, may be immediately after the marriage...or if the couple wants to enjoy their married life, they should definitely go for the baby max after 1 or 2 years of the marriage....